What happened when we didn't open our mail for 3 months
A few months ago we got very busy - guests, traveling out of the country etc. So we allowed the mail to pile up. Then, one night when we had guests over to dinner and mail was scattered all around, we put it neatly in a small laundry basket that was conveniently at hand. That was the first major mistake. You know what happens when you give something a home - it settles in and starts belonging there. So now it seemed perfectly natural to toss more and more mail into that basket with the sense that the mail was being dealt with. Then the holiday season was upon us, all kinds of paper work had to be done, classes registered for, cars to be taken to dealers, the skies were cloudy all through January (excuses, excuses!) and before we knew it three months had passed. "Clear mail" got written in my planner successively on several weekends (my modus operandi is putting down every task for a particular date; if it doesn't get done that day, cross it off and move it to another da...